Wednesday

Diamond Heart Jewelry: Check For Imperfections

It has been well accepted that diamonds are a girl's best friend. Every woman would love to have a pair or two of this precious stone in their possession. This is because it is considered as the ultimate gemstone and the hardest substance that nature is able to produce. It is also perceived as the best stone to be mounted in any jewelry piece.

For centuries, diamonds have been used for jewelry making. Yet, more than any point in history, the use of such gems today have profoundly increased. Aside from being a proof of status for the elites, the use of such gem has also been more widespread than simply as jewelries. It has also benefited many industries, generating large amounts of profits as it can be applied for cutting tools, a means to transmit sounds, various optical applications, and as a special coating for airplane cockpit windows.

Given that these precious stones have varying uses, it still remains a fact that they are widely used in jewelry making. Many people are now fond of buying jewelries that have diamonds in them because they are good investments. The investment worth of these objects can be accounted to their increasing value. They also serve as important pieces of heirloom that can be passed from one generation to the other.

Investment worth aside, these gemstones are also timeless keepsakes during important occasions. For instance, during engagements diamond encrusted rings are the most common gifts that a woman can receive from her man. Considering that an engagement is one of the most important traditions, many men prefer giving bands that would represent their true emotions. What adds to the worth of these diamond encrusted bands are their physical durability that could simply last for a lifetime.

Prior to purchasing such diamond mounted rings however, it is important to ensure that you are buying a high-quality diamond and not just those that can be bought anywhere. A diamond can be mistaken with cubic zirconiums and other similar looking stones, making it hard to buy such gem if you have no background about it. With these in mind, it is always advisable to purchase such precious stones in reputable diamond stores to avoid the fake ones. It is also worth knowing that the value of a diamond can be identified based from the so called 4Cs or color, clarity, cut and carat.

So, before buying that diamond ring, a little research can be truly helpful to know whether you are getting the right one or not. There are wide selections of diamond bands in the market; as such it pays to know everything about the product you are interested in. At the end of the day, having the right band would represent the purity of your vows for each other. As such, it is imperative to embark on something that will remind you of that long and lasting union.

The physical durability of diamonds is one of its primary characteristics that make it more appealing. This is especially true for a man who wanted to express his love for a woman during engagements. A diamond ring has become an engagement keepsake trend due to its value and promise of longevity, which in some way is also representative of an undying love. Such rings are so popular that it has generally become a trademark during elite engagements.

Want to save money - half pencils!

If you want to save money on food you buy cheaper ingredients yet get the same quantity. For promotional pencils it's not always possible to buy cheaper products because of the risk of them being of a poorer quality. Instead, a more cost effective way to promote yourself with promotional pencils is to simply buy half the pencil... yes, that's right, buy HALF the pencils.

There are packs of four coloured crayons available which can be printed with your logo and come in a pack. Printed pencils are a true stalwart of the promotional products industry and as such are a guaranteed reliable source of brand awareness.

Alternatively there are always pricebuster pencils which are on offer at present at hotline.co.uk and erasers which go hand in hand with promotional pencils.

Sunday

Gigabyte GA 8I865GM(F)-775 motherboard

Gigabyte GA 8I865GM(F)-775 motherboard has socket LGA-775. The CPU is Pinless Processor. As the old motherboards has passed Socket 478 thre are holes in the motherbaord and processers which support has pins on it surface. But latest Socket LGA-775 motherboard has an advantage that is now the motherboard which has pins plugs to the CPU, transfering the risk of pins being bent by the (usually more expensive) CPU, to the motherboard (usually less expensive). Furthermore, the risk of pins bent is reduced because the pins are located on a spring surface, rather than in a hole. Furthermore, the CPU is pushed into place by a "load plate", rather than direct human fingers.


GIGABYTE GA-8I865GME-775






The technician installing lifts the hinge plate load, insert the processor, close the load plate over the top of the processor, and pushes down a lever. The pressure of the locking lever on the processor load plate pushes down the terminals 775 contact points in copper firmly down on the motherboard 775 pin, ensuring a good connection. The load plate covers only the edges of the upper surface of the CPU. the center is free to make contact with the cooler on the top of the CPU.

Monday

Tips For A Happy and Successful Marriage

by Dr. Aisha Hamdan

Ten ways of increasing happiness in your marriage and making it a successful one

The young and excited bride-and-groom-to-be; ecstatic about the upcoming wedding and marriage and the joy that it will bring. Three to six months later, reality has set in and both spouses realize that marriage is no easy task, but one that takes a great deal of effort and patience. The following are tips for both wives and husbands, to help make the task a little less daunting, and to increase the many rewards that are possible in such a marvelous and complex relationship.

Enter the Marriage with the Right Intention and Renew this Often

Both spouses should enter the marriage with the pure intention of pleasing Allaah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, in order to receive His grace and blessings. The marriage itself then becomes an act of worship and one for which both spouses will be rewarded. Allaah will be pleased with them and this will be the most critical element in ensuring peace, stability and happiness throughout the marital life. It is also important to realize that when an act of worship is continued over a long period of time, it becomes necessary to renew one's intention often to remain on the correct path and to obtain the most benefit.

Remember that Your Spouse is also Your Brother or Sister in Islam

Too often Muslims treat other people outside the home with kindness and sincerity, but then behave in a very different manner when it comes to their own spouses. Muslims should always remember that one's spouse is also another brother or sister in Islam and that the rights and duties that apply to the general brotherhood (sisterhood) of Islam, should also form the basis of the marital relationship. Obviously, a spouse has rights beyond these, but there should be a clear understanding of the rights of brotherhood (sisterhood) and adherence to these principles.

Do Not Hold Unrealistic Expectations

Before marriage, people often have unrealistic ideas about their spouse-to-be, expecting perfection in all aspects. This rarely, if ever, plays out in reality and can lead to unnecessary problems and concerns. We should recall that Allaah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, created humans as imperfect beings, which means that many mistakes will be made throughout a lifetime. By turning the table and expecting imperfection, we will be pleasantly surprised and pleased when our spouse is much more than we ever hoped for. This, in turn, will lead to contentment within the marriage.

Emphasize the Best in Your Spouse

Since no one is endowed with all of the best qualities, emphasis should be placed on the positive qualities that a spouse possesses. Encouragement, praise, and gratitude should be expressed on a regular basis, which will strengthen these qualities and be beneficial in developing others. An attempt should be made to overlook or ignore negative characteristics, as the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhe wa sallam, said, " A believing man should not have any malice against a believing woman. He may dislike one characteristic in her, but may find another in her which is pleasing." (Muslim)

Be Your Mate's Best Friend

Try to think of what a best friend means and be one to your spouse. This may mean sharing interests, experiences, dreams, failures and upsets. It may involve understanding a spouse's likes and dislikes and attempting to please him or her in any way possible. A best friend is also usually someone that can be confided to trusted, and relied upon. A spouse should be the kind of friend that one would want to keep throughout life.

Spend Quality Time Together

It is not enough to share meals, chores and small talk together. Spouses should also find time to focus on strengthening the relationship. Often couples get busy with their own separate tasks and forget about working on one of the most important elements in life. Quality time may be anything from having a quiet, profound conversation to going for a nice long nature walk, to sharing a special hobby or project. Both spouses should enjoy the particular option chosen and distractions should be kept to a minimum.

Express Feelings Often

This is probably a very "Western" concept and one that some people may have difficulty fulfilling, but it is important to be open and honest about one's feelings, both positive and negative. The lines of communication should always be open and any concerns should be brought to the attention of the other spouse as soon as they arise. The rationale of this is that what begins as a simple concern may grow into a major problem if it is not addressed quickly and properly. The "silent treatment" has never been the remedy for anything.

Admit to Mistakes and ask for Forgiveness

Just as we ask Allaah to forgive us when we make mistakes, we should also do the same with our spouses. The stronger person is the one who can admit when he or she is wrong, request pardon from the other, and work hard to improve his/her aspects that are in need of change. When a person is unwilling to do this, there will be little growth and development in the marriage.

Never Bring up Mistakes of the Past

It can be very hurting for another person to be reminded of past mistakes. In Islam, it is generally not recommended to dwell on the past. One may remember errors that were made so that they are not repeated, but this should not be done excessively. Certainly, as humans, we are not in the position to judge another person. Advice may be given, but not in a harmful manner.

Surprise Each Other at Times

This may entail bringing home a small gift or flowers, preparing a special meal, dressing up and beautifying oneself (this is not only for women), or sending a secret note in a lunchbox. A little imagination will go a long way here. The idea is to spice up the marriage and avoid getting into a dull routine that may negatively affect the marriage.

Have a Sense of Humour

This particular aspect can go a long way in preventing arguments and brightening the atmosphere of the home. Life is a constant stream of challenges and tests, and to approach it in a light-hearted manner will help to make the journey smoother and more enjoyable. You may also find that your spouse enjoys this characteristic and looks forward to spending time with you because of it.

Quick Tips for Discussions and Disagreements:

Begin with the intention to resolve the issue . If both spouses have this intention and plan to consult together, it is more likely that there will be a successful resolution.

Remember that it takes two to quarrel . If only one person chooses not to argue, there will be no argument. Generally, the one who is wrong does most of the talking.

Both spouses should not be angry at the same time . If one of the spouses becomes upset, it is best if the other tries to remain calm and collected.

Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire . Of course, house fires do not occur very frequently; yelling should occur at about the same rate.

Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled . This is one of the worst things that can happen in a marriage and should be avoided as much as possible. This allows hurt feelings and thoughts to linger and generally exacerbates the problem.

If one spouse needs to win, let it be your mate . Do not focus on winning yourself; this is the main reason that discussions tend to become heated.